BEDOHAVE™ · BE → DO → HAVE

Decision Clarity Checklist

One decision. One deliberate next step.

BE · Notice and choose your standard

What decision am I facing?

What do I know happened? What am I assuming?

What matters to me as a father and as a person in this decision?

What is one small step I can follow through on?

Is a request or a conversation needed? What will I say?

What is within my control, and when will I act?

When will I review what happened?

What worked? What did I learn?

What will I keep or adjust next week?

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A practical reflection tool, not therapy or a diagnosis.